Why do psychiatrist say this?

If I'm not interested in talking to them. They say I'm arrogant,& have low self esteem, and when I point out to them that arrogance and low self esteem contradict each other, then they try and switch it up by saying my arrogance is overcompensation for something that I'm lacking. When I ask what specifically I'm "overcompensating" for they don't seem to be able to give an answer. I think they are no better than those fake psychic hotlines that come on T.V. Shrinks are so full o shyt they fukking stink. Can someone tell me why they say this stupid shyt and what they mean by it? Sorry if I come off pissed but I can't get an answer from them all they can provide is a bunch of circle talk